Sach Ka Samna is new program on Star Plus. Though made a big issue about the concept being copied and all, the thing which i am more amazed is the concept itself.
Reveling the hidden truth or the deepest feelings or certain incidents in public, or more difficult is reveling in front of that person itself about whom it is. Indeed this is a very brave, and daring act.
Yes off course, telling the truth is the most important thing, but everyone of us do have such secret things which we might never reveal. May be because of fear of loosing something or just because what others will think, or what ever the reason may be. Yes these things are known to your most closest people but it is never easy to confess in front of other people.
Sometimes it is better to confront the truth, but then you even dont know what the consequences will be. In any case I believe that reveling the truth, confessing is the thing which can solve many problems and you are left with no burden on you.
Saturday, August 08, 2009
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Whatever happens, happens for good. May be there is something more good stored in for you.
We all in our life at some point of time come so close to the thing we always desired of getting the most. The thing which will change your remaining life after getting that thing, may that be anything. And you are all ready for that moment, just a step away...
But then its such a disappointment when you miss that thing just by a whisker... In spite of all your hard work and determination you are so helpless to just let it go and you are left with no option but to wait for the right time for it to come again...
The phase after this is so difficult to pass. Even when you are engrossed in some other thing which leaves you with no time for yourself we still tend to think about it time and again and that does make us feel down, irritated, disheartened...
Somewhat going through the same phase, most of them told me that its fine, try again, hard luck, be calm it happens and all. But i was surprised and irritated to the core when I heard
"Whatever happens, happens for good. May be there is something more good stored in for you."
I dint know how to react on it. Whats good in that if I am not getting what I wanted, what I desired the most? What is the use of getting something more good/better than that? How will I be happy or satisfied with a thing which I never wanted really but is better than what I wanted?
I do believe in the sentence that whatever happens happens for good, but now i believe its just another reason of your failure and it is difficult to live with this assurance.
But then its such a disappointment when you miss that thing just by a whisker... In spite of all your hard work and determination you are so helpless to just let it go and you are left with no option but to wait for the right time for it to come again...
The phase after this is so difficult to pass. Even when you are engrossed in some other thing which leaves you with no time for yourself we still tend to think about it time and again and that does make us feel down, irritated, disheartened...
Somewhat going through the same phase, most of them told me that its fine, try again, hard luck, be calm it happens and all. But i was surprised and irritated to the core when I heard
"Whatever happens, happens for good. May be there is something more good stored in for you."
I dint know how to react on it. Whats good in that if I am not getting what I wanted, what I desired the most? What is the use of getting something more good/better than that? How will I be happy or satisfied with a thing which I never wanted really but is better than what I wanted?
I do believe in the sentence that whatever happens happens for good, but now i believe its just another reason of your failure and it is difficult to live with this assurance.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Looking back today, i am happy to see that i have come a long way...have crossed through so many paths and am finally close to my destination. Just a last and the most important step to let me in through the door of the dream I always wanted to make into reality.
I can very well see my destination, but there are many hindrances too which are making me to loose my focus, and its really irritating. Yes I know that this totally depends on me how to proceed after coming so close and not loose the path.
There are many people who want me to reach my destination, and its their support which helpful and making me more determined to get there and not loose any hope. Thanx to all these people.
I can very well see my destination, but there are many hindrances too which are making me to loose my focus, and its really irritating. Yes I know that this totally depends on me how to proceed after coming so close and not loose the path.
There are many people who want me to reach my destination, and its their support which helpful and making me more determined to get there and not loose any hope. Thanx to all these people.
Thursday, January 01, 2009
Year 2008
...and another year has passed. The begining of an new year, a new start all because of the wonderful year 2008.
Like we say life changing moments, for me this 2008 has proved to be life changing year. Many things have taken place which has a deep effect on all the things I used to do and that I will be doing.
Starting with my birthday and getting into 20's :P (indeed a very big thing). Followed by my sister's marriage. It was difficult for all of us initially to get adjusted to the fact that she wont be staying with us together anymore. Was used to her presence all the time at home and I never had to bother for anything when she was around at home. But sooner or later it was to happen. I had to be a bit responsible then helping mom and my second elder sister in all the possible ways. As with her marriage there were many other changes that tok place at home too which were totally unexpected and we all are still hoping for things to get better, but still staying happily.
Then the second thing that almost totally changed my life, my career. That was being a graduate and taking admission for MBA(IT). Though very much unwillingly under my sisters pressure I took admission for MBA, but I confess they both always make the right decission for me and I am really happy with my course. After long 5 years I have got along with a whole new lot of sweet friends and getting closer to the older ones. This was the biggest thing happend in 2008 which has totally changed my life.
Next is handball. Say it by luck or what but I was fortunate enough to play states, which I or my teammates had actually not imagined. But things went right and we were roaming for matches and had great fun with my team. Met many pepople and had a great experience overall.
Along with my graduation I had started with my NIIT course which will be getting over in this Jan also helped me a lot in shaping my career path and that too in IT. When I was in 12th I used to hate computers like anything. I was very much into NCC and sports so going into Defence services was fix(well that option is open now too) and I used to hate sitting on 1 place and typing and all. But fortunately in first year my mom nand sister took my admission and very much against my will selected vocational computers as 1 of the subjects and I could'nt change that later. So I had to study for papers and gradually started liking it. So much that I will receive my Microsoft Certificates within a week. lol.
There are many more things that happened, but the above ones are the most important ones. Just like every year this year too was full of ups and downs. Mostly downs, but thats what has made this year so special. Learnt many things and facts about myself and life which I will never be able to forget those.
Like we say life changing moments, for me this 2008 has proved to be life changing year. Many things have taken place which has a deep effect on all the things I used to do and that I will be doing.
Starting with my birthday and getting into 20's :P (indeed a very big thing). Followed by my sister's marriage. It was difficult for all of us initially to get adjusted to the fact that she wont be staying with us together anymore. Was used to her presence all the time at home and I never had to bother for anything when she was around at home. But sooner or later it was to happen. I had to be a bit responsible then helping mom and my second elder sister in all the possible ways. As with her marriage there were many other changes that tok place at home too which were totally unexpected and we all are still hoping for things to get better, but still staying happily.
Then the second thing that almost totally changed my life, my career. That was being a graduate and taking admission for MBA(IT). Though very much unwillingly under my sisters pressure I took admission for MBA, but I confess they both always make the right decission for me and I am really happy with my course. After long 5 years I have got along with a whole new lot of sweet friends and getting closer to the older ones. This was the biggest thing happend in 2008 which has totally changed my life.
Next is handball. Say it by luck or what but I was fortunate enough to play states, which I or my teammates had actually not imagined. But things went right and we were roaming for matches and had great fun with my team. Met many pepople and had a great experience overall.
Along with my graduation I had started with my NIIT course which will be getting over in this Jan also helped me a lot in shaping my career path and that too in IT. When I was in 12th I used to hate computers like anything. I was very much into NCC and sports so going into Defence services was fix(well that option is open now too) and I used to hate sitting on 1 place and typing and all. But fortunately in first year my mom nand sister took my admission and very much against my will selected vocational computers as 1 of the subjects and I could'nt change that later. So I had to study for papers and gradually started liking it. So much that I will receive my Microsoft Certificates within a week. lol.
There are many more things that happened, but the above ones are the most important ones. Just like every year this year too was full of ups and downs. Mostly downs, but thats what has made this year so special. Learnt many things and facts about myself and life which I will never be able to forget those.
Thursday, December 04, 2008
MUMBAI...
Mumbai experienced the worst ever 60 hours of terror that the world has ever witnessed. There was no doubt that the terrorists would be gunned down but no one knew that it will take such a long time. Many innocent people lost their lives n some of the brave officers too.
Like others I was too amongst the ones who were glued to the TV for the recent updates and praying this all should end soon. And finally after almost 60 hours it was the end of all the terrorist drama...
It was so sad to hear about the people taken as hostages and killed and all and especially because just only about a month back I had been to all these places where terrorists had striked. I had spend one of the wonderful evenings while visiting these places and today on the same spots many people have lost their lives...
I seriously wonder how these terrorists are trained in such a systematic manner and the way they execute their missions… The article about the Ajmal Amir Kasab the terrorist who was arrested and all the things that he revealed, was so shocking. The other article in Times Of India about psychiatrist have to deal with these terrorists and hoe these terrorists are trained to feel nothing about anything and so they can kill so inhumanly. So much so that the news channels are not allowed to show such pictures. And the family of the General Manager of Taj hotel was killed in such a way that the news channels couldn’t show.
The stories of those who survived are really disheartening. I sincerely appreciate the way they were able to survive in such tough situations.
From this terror attack, a lesson is learnt about having a tight security. And also a lesson taught by India and its brave officers to terrorist that it’s not so easy to execute your plans here. So watch out!
Like others I was too amongst the ones who were glued to the TV for the recent updates and praying this all should end soon. And finally after almost 60 hours it was the end of all the terrorist drama...
It was so sad to hear about the people taken as hostages and killed and all and especially because just only about a month back I had been to all these places where terrorists had striked. I had spend one of the wonderful evenings while visiting these places and today on the same spots many people have lost their lives...
I seriously wonder how these terrorists are trained in such a systematic manner and the way they execute their missions… The article about the Ajmal Amir Kasab the terrorist who was arrested and all the things that he revealed, was so shocking. The other article in Times Of India about psychiatrist have to deal with these terrorists and hoe these terrorists are trained to feel nothing about anything and so they can kill so inhumanly. So much so that the news channels are not allowed to show such pictures. And the family of the General Manager of Taj hotel was killed in such a way that the news channels couldn’t show.
The stories of those who survived are really disheartening. I sincerely appreciate the way they were able to survive in such tough situations.
From this terror attack, a lesson is learnt about having a tight security. And also a lesson taught by India and its brave officers to terrorist that it’s not so easy to execute your plans here. So watch out!
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Through out our life we get in to so many things. We always want all the things that we do to be perfect and should give the best possible results. In the sense the results which we expect to get. It should be termed the best by others or just by ourselfes to be satifsied, that I have done the work in the best possible manner. To do all this we strive so hard, get sleepless nights and all such things...
And finally the judgement day, which decides the fate of all your efforts are going to be rewarded or will go in vain...
And its such a terrible feeling when u dont get the desired results and are just lost in finding what went wrong...For few moments you feel as if all is lost...and such a depression.
And finally the judgement day, which decides the fate of all your efforts are going to be rewarded or will go in vain...
And its such a terrible feeling when u dont get the desired results and are just lost in finding what went wrong...For few moments you feel as if all is lost...and such a depression.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
In life we need to realize what we want, and that we never understand unless and until we loose something. We learn so many valuable things from a broken relation, the most important about yourself. May that be your best friend in your school or any one who you trusted the most.
Yes off course it’s sad when due to some reasons there are misunderstandings or unnecessary blocks start building between two people, and finally you part away on some sad note, so much so that you don’t even feel like seeing that person ever in your life again. There are so many grudges, ill feelings, sometimes which you might never forget in your life. But according to me sometime its better to part away when things start getting worst, let it go.
Next time when facing same situation, after meeting a new person, you know what you want and you know what went wrong which you can improve this time and build a better relation.
What made me write this, is that I met one of my school friend today. We were so called best friends in school. We had shared some memorable days together. But soon many things started turning ugly and eventually we stopped talking and never were in contact ever since we left the school. Its almost been more than 6 years now. There were many bitter things that happened between us some of which I don’t even remember all things and I don’t blame anyone for whatever happened, but they made me change. I don’t know how and what…but the grudges I had, infact I still have some, has helped me to be a better person, to make better relations later on. The things that she pointed out about me that time, some were right some were wrong. And so to prove that I was right that time too not to her but to myself, I try doing things in a better way which has helped me to grow, grow in a better way.
Well she is not the only person I had bad relation with but there are many such people. And indeed I have known something new about me each time I had any grudges or bad time with anyone. And yes it’s not the case that I have mingled well again with these people, but somewhere when I see them or think about them I thank all these people as they have indirectly helped me to be a better person than what I was. And I am happy about it. Thanx again.
Yes off course it’s sad when due to some reasons there are misunderstandings or unnecessary blocks start building between two people, and finally you part away on some sad note, so much so that you don’t even feel like seeing that person ever in your life again. There are so many grudges, ill feelings, sometimes which you might never forget in your life. But according to me sometime its better to part away when things start getting worst, let it go.
Next time when facing same situation, after meeting a new person, you know what you want and you know what went wrong which you can improve this time and build a better relation.
What made me write this, is that I met one of my school friend today. We were so called best friends in school. We had shared some memorable days together. But soon many things started turning ugly and eventually we stopped talking and never were in contact ever since we left the school. Its almost been more than 6 years now. There were many bitter things that happened between us some of which I don’t even remember all things and I don’t blame anyone for whatever happened, but they made me change. I don’t know how and what…but the grudges I had, infact I still have some, has helped me to be a better person, to make better relations later on. The things that she pointed out about me that time, some were right some were wrong. And so to prove that I was right that time too not to her but to myself, I try doing things in a better way which has helped me to grow, grow in a better way.
Well she is not the only person I had bad relation with but there are many such people. And indeed I have known something new about me each time I had any grudges or bad time with anyone. And yes it’s not the case that I have mingled well again with these people, but somewhere when I see them or think about them I thank all these people as they have indirectly helped me to be a better person than what I was. And I am happy about it. Thanx again.
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