Whatever happens, happens for good. May be there is something more good stored in for you.

We all in our life at some point of time come so close to the thing we always desired of getting the most. The thing which will change your remaining life after getting that thing, may that be anything. And you are all ready for that moment, just a step away...
But then its such a disappointment when you miss that thing just by a whisker... In spite of all your hard work and determination you are so helpless to just let it go and you are left with no option but to wait for the right time for it to come again...
The phase after this is so difficult to pass. Even when you are engrossed in some other thing which leaves you with no time for yourself we still tend to think about it time and again and that does make us feel down, irritated, disheartened...
Somewhat going through the same phase, most of them told me that its fine, try again, hard luck, be calm it happens and all. But i was surprised and irritated to the core when I heard
"Whatever happens, happens for good. May be there is something more good stored in for you."
I dint know how to react on it. Whats good in that if I am not getting what I wanted, what I desired the most? What is the use of getting something more good/better than that? How will I be happy or satisfied with a thing which I never wanted really but is better than what I wanted?
I do believe in the sentence that whatever happens happens for good, but now i believe its just another reason of your failure and it is difficult to live with this assurance.